Got another fundraising event in September, which the money is being split between lyndsey lodge hospice and defibrillator funds .you must be so proud of your daughter and son debs5
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Yeh … they raised £390 for cancer research … been emotional today xx
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Aaw that is fantastic xx
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I am sorry for your loss i had the same situation with my lovely wife of 44 years she felt unwell i told her that i was going to call an ambulance but she refused and said " if you do im not getting in it " she was so stubborn that evening she went to the bathroom when i heard a thump i rushed in and found her on the floor i new immediately that she was dead😪 and gave her cpr 4 ambulances arrived within 8 minutes they were brilliant and spent over 1 hour with her and resuscitated her and off we went hospital we she passed away that evening at 11. 23 on 13th October 2022 i shall never forgive myself for not calling that ambulance sooner she died of a strangulated hernia if only she had told me how unwell she must of been feeling the guilt that i have is unbearable still have all of her clothes and belongings can’t bear to part with them my darling wife was my life heart and soul which ended that night and keep thinking if i cant have her back maybe I should go with her i have not had any contact from her 3 brothers since the funeral not really bothered now so off i went last week and ordered her headstone which strangely enough seemed to cheer me up for a couple of days which i thought was a little strange it was like i had completed her care even though i still worry about her lying peacefully in her resting place does that sound strange or am i going crazy really need her back thank you for reading this message love to you all xxx
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No it doesnt sound strange ! I think you were just proud and happy you picked the headstone for your wife !
Everything is strange at this time of bereavment ! Nothing feels “normal” now does it without our loved one. Arent families strange ! Their reactions are so bizarre ! 2 of my husbands brothers never even acknowledged my husbands passing … they didnt speak much anyway but still ! My own family after funeral acted as if i wasnt here and are still acting weird ! 2 of my kids not even speaking to me ! Its just bizarre way people carry on when you just need aome comforting ! And im same btw not even moved my husband things cos i cant bear to 
and dont feel guilty … you werent to know what was wrong with your wife but i do the same as well blame myself for not noticing my husband was poorlier than i realised xx
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