I am wondering if anyone finds themselves getting angry that their partner has left them behind to cope with life and its problems alone. My husband of 60 years is gone 3 months now and I have to make a lot of big decisions alone and hope they are the right ones. Also I have a big house and garden to keep going. I go from crying a lot to this u reasonable anger. I find evenings the worst time. After a long busy day there is that empty place beside me on the sofa with his glasses still on the side table. It gives me an actual physical pain to see that but I can’t bear to put them away. It’s like I’m trying to forget him and shut him away.
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Thank you so much. I thought it was just me being totally u reasonable and unfair. I wonder when I will stop waking up with that horrible feeling of dread in my stomach and just not wanting to have to get up and deal with anything. Just sleep. Will happen eventually I suppose
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I have the same feelings every day is so hard im miss my best friend
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Thanks vicky
Im so sorry for you’re loss im just hoping it gets better, i think its also the lack of sleep
Steve
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