Another day almost over, see it out! get up fresh and do it all again, no doubt the tears will come at some point with the memories or flashbacks as people have put on here. A lonely solitude existance, remembering how life used to be. I think too much, maybe I remember everything from a child and how much cared for me and what I meant to her. Since I lost mum August 23 I had a constant supply of hankychiefs, I just not stopped buying them since. I don’t have a life no more I’m trying but it’s a uphill battle, a battle that proving to be tough. A life, a existence more like. I would join mum if I could, as this life now isn’t me. It rocks you and changes you forever when you lose a loved one.
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I’m so sorry you lost your mum. I understand exactly how you feel, I lost my mum in November and I am heart broken.
I miss her every minute of every day.
It is a battle but it’s one we must do, one day at a time, one hour at a time if necessary and eventually it won’t hurt as much, at least that’s what I’ve been told.
You’re not alone x
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Keith I am really struggling. I feel so sad and alone. I had a good life and now I just exist. It is so hard for the one’s left behind. Let’s hope we find some joy.
I know what you are saying, we all feel that you know. I have double the problems even treble if you count everyday life. What have you tried to help you cope with daily life ?
I have many things to sort out. I have to decide about my future. I live in a very large 6 bed detached house. Far to big for one. I need to sell up and move. I was due to have a hip replacement, sadly since R passed away, I have had to cancel. So many things have changed. Most aspects of the life I knew for the past 40 years
It’s still early days into 25, don’t be too hard on yourself. Take your time 1 step at a time. It’s wrong time at the moment for the majority of people. The future not so easy but life’s not a race.
I have a lot of responsibility. I have a disabled brother, I have cared for him since I was a child. My mother died when I was 5 and my father when I was in my early 20’s. I also lost my elder brother the year before my father. I am in my 60’s and have always been responsible for others. The grief of losing X after nearly 40 years together has broken me. We all have our stories and struggles. What we all have in common is our grief. We have all lost someone we loved dearly. X
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yea which brings us here regularly.