Another loss

Hi all, some of you may remember me as Nori, I left and rejoined.
Over the last 3 years my Dad died, my uncle died (of a horrific death) my 43 year old husband died last November, and 2 days ago my Mum died.
I have two boys to bring up on my own and my Mum was the last person who bothered with us.
I’m very much of the mindset that life is full of chapters. After my husband died, I was determined to make the next chapter a good one, alongside the grief. However, this has massively knocked me…

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Hi @Jori ,

Thank you so much for sharing this with the community :blue_heart: I’m sure someone will be along to offer their support, but I just wanted to let you know that you have been heard and you are not alone.

Take good care,
Alex

Hi @Jori
I’m so sorry you are having to deal with the loss of your mum on top of everything else.
It sounds like you are generally a positive person, but anyone and everyone would be knocked down by the losses you have been experiencing over the last few years.

I haven’t much to offer to help except that as you know this site can be really supportive and a lifeline when needed. Keep posting here if it helps and please know you are not alone.
Just try to keep going - get your strength and love from your kids - they will help you find a way forward even when we don’t want to keep fighting.
And make sure you look after yourself and just do what you can or need to do to get through each day.
Sending lots of love and strength your way xx

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