Morning Sunday clubbers,yet another one arrives to continue the pain,I went to the cemetery yesterday and put a pot of red begonias on her grave,stayed for a while and had a long chat,I left feeling a bit better,hope you all have the best day you can.
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Good morning. Glad I am not the only one that has turned up. I spent a long time in my garden yesterday tending our roses. The gardening was something we shared and I missed him. I talk to him constantly.
We could do with more beer and skittles in this club!
Xx
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Good morning! Iām here as well. Got back yesterday from a wonderful weekās holiday in Northumberland. Thereās no doubt what my priorities are today - washing laundry, unpacking all the myriad of things I couldnāt possibly do with out for a week!!! But Iām also taking time out to remember the things I did, which were often what Penny and I did together over the years. An odd emotional moment, but lots of happy memories of them, and new memories as well.
But Iāve definitely come back to earth , I bumped my car (a bit) whilst away, so Iāve got to sort that out, but then looked at my post and realised my car tax and MOT ran out while I was away. As my hero, Pooh, would say: āHo Humā
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I am glad you enjoyed your holiday, and I admire your determination.
Itās always a bit of a downer when you get back.
Still, at least you are quoting Pooh instead of Eeyore!
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Iād rather be like Tigger, but I lost a lot of my bounce some years ago 
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I find Sundays the hardest day to get through. Nobody calls the phone never rings, i imagine everyone is spending time with family that i donāt have so feel very alone. My beautiful husband died on a Sunday so another reason to hate this day.
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In reality not everyone is with friends or family, many people are on their own or with partners who are abusive or unwell with things like dementia. I know a couple of those. Still a tough day to get through though.
Ahh, but as we all know, the wonderful thing about Tigger is heās the only one!
If you have lost your bounce, go trampolining, or ārebound therapyāas it is called at my daughterās day centre.
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@mary2 I agree. We see these couples out together and sometimes feel a little envious, but I was in relationship for 26 years before where, for the last few years I couldnāt stand him. We looked like the ideal couple who had everything, but I was totally miserable and couldnāt see an escape route. When I finally made the break everyone was shocked. So, bear in mind that a lot of couples we see might be very unhappy together, and are just going through the motions, perhaps even jealous of us and our independence!
Anyway, Iāve been out blackberry picking with my dog, now off to a NT garden I havenāt visited before. No plans to see anyone until my yoga class tomorrow, but I have a new book for later this pm.
Try to make the most of your day, I know itās tough but we need to keep wading through the fogā¦
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Morning ron11 and i hate Sunday as 9 weeks today and yet Sunday was my best day with my husband and glad you found comfort in talking to her. Hope your day goes OK.
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Iāve had my nephew with me this weekend. He designed a racing gameā¦ Iām so rubbish at gaming but weāve had a bit of fun with it and had the chance to talk about his uncleā¦
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Thanks Judy my personal Armageddon was 14 weeks ago today, we used to love Sundays now I detest them.
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Hi. Iām a bit later joining today as walked the dog and then met an old friend for breakfast.
She has not long left her partner of 20 years and although it was a good thing for her to do as the relationship was emotionally abusive, it is still hard for her.
We talked about a mural friend who is also in a difficult relationship and it made me remember how truly lucky me and my husband were to have such a good marriage for over 30 years.
I am thankful for that and try for that to be a positive. When I shared that I should be grateful and less sad as I had been so lucky she replied ābut that is what makes it so especially hard ā
Which is very true.
Iām going to try tackle some housework today and order some shirts online for my daughter going back to school.
Have as good a Sunday as can be. X
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Itās good to hear you had a good holiday, I love āPoohā my mentor 
I am ok with Sundays, my husband died on a Saturday still the weekend though but I donāt focus on āDā day, we both enjoyed Sundayās so I keep up the tradition. I find nice things to do or simply relax and unwind after the working week or take time out to reflect on the lovely memories of our life together. Today has been housework chores but I put my music on and go about what I need to do. Tonight off to a pub quiz.
Hope everyone has a nice Sunday doing whatever you all like doing
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Ron11 and i understand that because Iām the same. I hate Sunday now 
i decided to do gardening today and i broke our garden lights and i ended up in tears 
but positive i did something today. Hope your day is going ok.
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It is 22 weeks today.
I hate Sundays,
I had to do a bit of shopping so I did that in a very quiet shopping area.
Love and hugs everyone.
Rose xx
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I also hate Sundays its 7 weeks an all 49 days since i lost my husband. And omg dies it still hurt. I miss him every minute every second of everyday. .xcc
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8 weeks for me and it is tough
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