Does anyone feel cross’ that their beloved left them knowing it was never ever there fault
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Their, sorry, typo
Hi
I’m so so sorry for your loss. I lost my husband 18 months ago. It was a sudden, unexpected death after a fall.
About three weeks after his death I was walking the dog in a field near home and found myself shouting out at him. Angry that he hadn’t taken more care.
But he never wanted to die that night and it was the only time I felt anger towards him for dying
I find now I get more angry that I’m left behind, having to deal with everything alone, and angry that he should be here and we should be planning the rest of our lives together
Sorry, I don’t know if sharing this helps in any way. X
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Absolutely 1 lost my husband 16 months ago he had cancer and passed away with in 8 weeks of diagnosis i get angry why him why us …12 years earlier he was paralized by nhs neglect wasnt that enough …
Take good care and hopefully tomorrow may be more positive although Christmas will be hard 
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I got mad at my darling husband twice since he died, once when I was inundated with paperwork, sorting through the piles of paper, shredding it all, and organizing it so I could find documents I need. The other for something that happened 20 years ago.
It is normal to be angry about such a loss even when it is no one’s fault. It will pass.
Much love.
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