Ashes not comforting

I know how you feel, as I too have my wife’s ashes and she want them scattered on Ben Nevis as and when I was ready to do that, but I have no idea as to when that will be. I, like you still speak to my wife, is it a source of comfort for us or just habit? No one really knows what the answer is, but my thoughts are with you, which for all of us who has lost someone very close is a deeply painful time.

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I didn’t want the ashes either he’s in my heart and soul .Ashes just not for me.

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Everyone is different, so there’s no right or wrong, as long as you are comfortable in your choice.

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That’s very true everyone deals with all this rubbish in their own way.

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