I feel like dad was selfish scattering my mum ashes without telling me when we had her at home for such a long time


Dear @Roses

I am sorry for the way you are feeling. Bereavement and Grief affects everyone in a different way as to emotions and how we act.

Have you considered speaking to your dad and asking him why he did this, were there instructions in a Will or a written request from your mum as to her ashes being scattered?

I do hope you and your dad will have the opportunity to discuss this and you will understanding his reasons as to why he scattered your mums ashes without telling you.

Take care.