Ashes

Coping with bereavement
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I picked up my husband today it broke my heart . I don’t think I can live without him

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@jackieberkeley i put off picking up shaun’s for weeks as i knew this was going to be the final thing. the confirmation he really was gone…
the day i went to collect them i was nearly sick. and just absolutely broke my heart to know that’s my husband…
i ask myself everyday how i’m meant to live without him, i don’t want to…
we had so many more plans, years ahead! and they’re gone! :broken_heart:

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I picked my husband’s up straight away and he is on my beside table. I want to keep him close to me.

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Got Steve home before Christmas. Speak to him every day . Put some fairy lights around him. Xx

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yes shaun’s are beside my bed too… i was relieved when i did get them and know he’s with us x

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I wasn’t allowed my fiancé ashes as his daughter kept them and doesn’t want anything to do with me wasn’t even allowed to say goodbye to her dad I feel so alone and full of hate x

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@Eveybabes that is awful i’m so so sorry xx

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My son and daughter in law bought me a special vase that I’ve put Sandra’s ashes in (earn). The top comes out to put flowers in. I’ve taken Sandra (ashes in earn) with me when I’ve gone for a walk. The earn (vase) Sandra sits on the table where I can see her every day, it’s so comforting having her near to me.

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Yes I feel so alone and cry every time I only wanted a small amount of his ashes for a
Ring to remember him bye
My heart hurts xx

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I’ve put David on my bedside I miss him so much :broken_heart:

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Oh my goodness…
That’s so sad.
I’m so sorry xx

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I picked Alan up the day after, I wanted him home with me…:broken_heart:
X

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@Eveybabes you should so be given that!!! it’s so cruel i’m so so sorry xx

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Nope his daughter who I treated as my own no longer talks to me etc his ex wife seemed to have her say of his funeral from what I was showed pics etc didn’t look much I wasn’t allowed to send flowers or visit him in chapel of rest I think they were jealous of me in some way I get the youngest daughter was daddy’s girl but I wasn’t left nothing makes me sad to think if he Really ever loved me at all we got engaged in 2021 it would have been 2 years the 23rd of this month I tried to save him got him an ambulance and only spoke with him on the phone hour just before he passed and some how I feel I’m to blame I just want him back :sob::sob::sob::sob::sob:

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I treated her as my own even when her father and she fell out but now it’s all my fault I get she’s young and grieving but I tried saving her dad but was too late xx