Has anyone not been able to collect their loved one’s ashes yet
We had my mums funeral 31 December - the undertakers only got them on 14 January as they had to fetch them from the crematorium (we didn’t use the local one ) which I think is disgusting making us wait over two weeks we had to chase them up as well
I really don’t want them in the house - something about it just creeps me out I don’t know why
It’s five months since I lost my husband and I still can’t face collecting his ashes even though I want him near me. At the same time, I kind of dread it.
I fully understand when you say you don’t want the ashes. I felt the same. I want the real person not what is left of them after they have passed. When I feel a lot stronger, l will scatter them in our garden around a part of the garden we redesign a few months before he passed, as it was the last work we done together.