How have people coped with sounds that they associate with the person they have lost?
I live fairly near a hospital and hear ambulance sirens a lot. It never bothered me before but since my partner passed recently at home I’m more aware of it and sometimes find it upsetting.
He rode a motorbike and I’d listen out for him on his way home. I’d give him a wave and blow a kiss from the window when he was going away for a bit. A few other people on the estate have bikes so I hear them a lot as well as delivery drivers. I know it isn’t his bike because it sounds different but it still makes me a little sad.