Feeling overwhelmed with grief, ten months on. I thought I’d made huge improvements but not so. I’ve got that awful, empty, lonely feeling. Why does it have to be like this? Why is grief so destructive. What will I be like on the anniversary of my dear partner’s death?
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Dear Bonnie I am sorry you are suffering today. I think that even when you feel stronger the protective shell we have is very thin still and it doesn’t take much to bring us down. With time maybe that shell will grow stronger too. Wishing you all the strength you need and sending hugs
All the best Tom
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Hi and sorry for your loss. I’m ten months in as well and I feel the grief is worsening again. It was my partner’s birthday yesterday. Took flowers to the cemetery, a sad day. I kept thinking back to his birthday last year. Just as well we didn’t know what was round the corner. That grief monster is always lurking somewhere. You think you’re ok but there it’s round the corner again. Take care.
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