I am having a really bad day still lying in bed feeling sorry for myself cannot muster any strength to get up and do anything about it, can’t even cry today think I’ve run out of steam trying to push myself… I am nine weeks in to loosing my husband.I have done everything your suppose to do arrange the funeral, sorted out affairs, housework, gardening, shopping sometimes cooking, now hit brick wall.sorry my post is down in the dumps .
Molly sorry to hear your having a bad day. Its been over a week since i got out of bed following the death of my partner. Ive managed to sort the funeral which is thursday butninhave set to start on the house as i have to moved out. As people keep telling me the days will get better x
Hello cazzab so sorry you have recently lost your partner it’s the worst thing to have too deal with and you still have the funeral in front of you and also having to move.I hope you are being supported . Very best wishes to you and thinking of you.x
They 100% are i just feel so empty no motivation to do a thing everything seems pointless
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Sometimes you just need to do nothing. Listen to your body and do nothing. You cant compare now with your normal before you lost your darling husband. Im four months into this nightmare, and still learning. Sending 
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