I’m having a bad day today.
After losing both parents I’ve just finished going through probate. I’m also selling the house which was my childhood home along with sorting all their possessions.
It doesn’t feel right and I keep saying I’m sorry to them out loud when I’m there. It’s the hardest thing to do. When the day comes to hand the keys over it’ll break my heart.
How do people cope with the guilt and pain of going through this? I’m breaking my heart every night when I’m on my own and I just hope they approve. 
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I. Am sure they would approve,and they they would be very proud of you. Sending you all my goodwishes
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Thank you
I’m so sorry for your loss @Shelly67
I lost my Mum in August, I still have my Dad and we are supporting each other but it is very hard. I keep thinking about what my Mum would be saying and praying she is proud of me and approves of everything we are having to do.
Remember you are doing what needs to be done. When I was sorting probate I felt so wrong discussing money and bank accounts and everything but it’s the necessary paperwork. remind yourself you’re doing what has to be done. Thinking of you x
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Thank you, I know, it just doesn’t seem right going through their personal things but I understand it has to be done. There are so many memories of everything in the house and it’s hard to have to let them go 
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