I lost my husband 3 years ago to cancer. i was married 39 year’s now it would be 41 years . i am a shy person and miss him so much sometimes i still find it hatd to cope my daughters are great support but feel guilty of the time i take away there familiesvto surport me anyone one feel the dame
Hi @Jan78
I’m only 5 months in from the death of my husband to cancer also, but I find it so hard without him and think I always will.
I’m not very outgoing and often find big social events overwhelming, but I have been making myself get out and try new things so I am not going to be totally alone when my youngest daughter leaves home.
Do you have hobbies and others you can lean on when things are tough ? I don’t have any answers but I’m sure your daughters are happy to support you, even if they are busy.
Take good care of yourself xx
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