Hi All,
I’m new to the community. I’ve just lost both my parents and my aunty and uncle who were like parents in the space of months. This is the first Christmas with out them.
I have a 15 yo and I’m trying my hardest to give him a nice Christmas despite it. Anyone else finding ‘Mam guilt’ a think when trying to give your child a nice as possible Christmas?
Hello @LouWK ,
I’m part of the Online Community team and I can see that you are new to the community - I’d like to thank you for bravely starting this thread. How you’re feeling is completely normal, it’s ok not to feel excited about the holidays as you might have in the past. It’s important to do what feels right for you and your family, whatever that may look like. I’m so sorry to hear about all your loss. Most community members have sadly experienced the death of a loved one and so will understand some of what you are going through.
I’m sure someone will be along to offer their support. In the meantime, you may wish to look at these Sue Ryder resources which might be helpful.
Sue Ryder also has a guide on supporting a bereaved child which you may find helpful to read
I really hope you find the community helpful and a good source of support and I also hope you feel you can access more support should you need it.
Thank you again for sharing – please keep reaching out and know that you are not alone.
Take care,
Alex