So sorry for your loss. I think you’re right unless you’ve been through losing your partner you can’t understand or relate to the sadness, loneliness etc that plagues you. Losing your soulmate in my experience has been the most painful and horrendous time of my life. I miss my husband so much every minute of the day. It’s 10 months since he passed and doesn’t seem to be getting easier for me. I try and console myself by thinking I was so lucky to have been married to him for 49 happy years, not everyone is that fortunate. That happiness makes my loss so hard to accept.
I hope you manage to stay strong and take comfort in knowing you are not alone in your grief which is so very evident on this forum. Take care.
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Hi There
Yes I do realise where you are coming from. I was extremely angry with the doctors, Nurses, home care staff. In fact everyone got a dose of my anger. Its part of the grief. I will never be the same since my dad passed. I still have my mothet but just about. I am sixty two but they say the longer you have them the harder the parting. I sm broken up with loneliness, grief and depression. I know how you feel.
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Sorry to hear about your loss @EPSAD, I think losing someone suddenly just intensifies the pain and grief and not having time to say goodbye, for me no time to resolve our differences too. After my partner was admitted to hospital we received mixed information and always thought he was coming home, 3 weeks later he was gone.
I am also on a waiting list with Cruse so hoping this will help me come to terms with it all. I hope you find the peace you are looking for too.