Bereavement

Hi
I have been invites by my mum to sleep overnight 23rd October for the funeral service of my late grandma 24th october 11am on the other side of Manchester as i live in Timperley Altrincham and they live in Stockport and when I lived with my parents until late last year i was subject of verbal and domestic abuse and gaslighting and police involved sometimes even at Christmas my mum loves playing victim based on experience and my dad was full of own self importance thinking is better than anybody and did everything for his own benefit as power of attorney over my nans welfare as she dementia and died from heart attack. My parents used to pretend to not hear me and shouted at me often getting the blame from my father for my mums lack of self esteem?
Why am I so scared of been in my former home for 1 day without any unnecessary behaviour from my parents?

Miss Joseph

Hi there @SWEETWOMAN234,

I’m so sorry to hear about your grandma.

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