Hello
I lost my husband just before Christmas and had his funeral this week. It was a real shock and I am struggling to believe it is real. It was totally unexpected as he had sailed through radio and chemotherapy. We were sat on a beach 2 weeks before he died. I just don’t get it
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Hello @Flo56 ,
I can see that you’re new to the community, so I wanted to say that I am so sorry for the loss of your husband that brings you here, It is normal to feel shock and disbelief.
I’m sure someone will be along to offer their support, but I wanted to share a few Sue Ryder resources with you that may help right now.
- Our Grief Guide self-help platform which has information, resources and advice to help you through your grief
- Our Grief Coach text service, which sends you personalised text support via SMS
- Our free Online Bereavement Counselling which is held via video chat
- Our Bereavement Information pages which can walk you through what you are going through.
Thank you again for sharing – please keep reaching out and know that you are not alone.
Take care,
Alex
I too lost my partner three weeks ago and am finding adjusting difficult. My heart goes out to you I thought of the quotes ‘ in Life we are in Death’ and ‘it was his time’ I hope this might give you some relief.