I lost my partner in August 2021 to a cancer he had hidden from me for months and could have been treatable. After he was gone I learnt of a secret life that explained why he did this.
I suffer from all of the grief of losing the perfect man I had and dealing with the fact that he was never really who I thought all along.
I find it difficult because all of the communities I have joined and forums I have been on, I have not seen anyone talking about this side of loss.
Is there anyone out there who found out they had been betrayed after they had lost their partner? how have you coped?
I can’t bring myself to write such a long detailed post as to explain what happened but I also write an anonymous blog where I have shared them.
whatyouleftmewith . co . uk