Hi everyone my 2nd birthday without my dear partner today and missing him so much just feel so lonley and forgotten 
. Apart from a couple of good lady friends im alone family live abroad so he was everything to me .Would be nice to hear from anyone Thank-you xx
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Happy Birthday, I had my first one in January, I didn’t celebrate it, the kids asked me what I wanted and I told them the one thing I want is the one thing I can’t have and to have their dad back.
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I feel for you. All I can suggest is try to treat today like any other. I’m sure you don’t feel like celebrating so keep yourself busy. It’s a sunny day so try to get some fresh air. These special days do make you focus on what you’ve lost but I’m sure you feel it ever day. Sorry I can’t be more help?
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Thanks for replying to me poppet and numb and sorry you are on the same journey Any advice or support is much appreciated .
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Honestly im not not good for advice, im struggling without my beloved husband and ive hit rock bottom, I miss him everyday.
Im sorry. Ill try as long as we are here for each other.
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Thank-you poppet we are all here for each other and know and understand the pain and heartache so well and it is very early on for you The best advice i can give you is take baby steps day be day and dont look any further than that .xx
Thank you, it’s been 15 weeks on Saturday since I lost him but it feels like yesterday, it just hurts to go on without him
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Such early days but time does help its not as raw now as the early days just be kind to yourself and know every thing you are feeling is normal xx
Hi all
My husbands birthday was 10 june and mine 17 june.Last year he died on 12th june and although we had his birthday with him,he was very poorly with pancreatic cancer. Five days after his death, i was 60 and it came and went in a blur.
I don’t really remember what i did or how i spent it. Not being together is horrible, especially today Hope5 but we’re all sending virtual hugs & good wishes that tomorrow is a better day.
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Thank-you Jane and so sorry you have joined i call the broken hearts club .I dont think il ever stop missing him every day of my life .But special days Christmas birthdays ect are always harder . And 12th of April is 2 years since he died .Love and support to every one of us on here xx