Good night to everyone,
may God bless you all!
Kind regards - Joe
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Oh my goodness Joe, what time is it there where you live? Im barely having breakfast. Goodnight , I hope you are able to sleep 
God bless
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Hello Lucy,
it’s 7:51 p.m over here.
Thank God l’m able to sleep 
quite well almost every night
Kind regards - Joe
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It’s awful, we need sleep to help repair our minds. Hope you get a better sleep tonight. Take care
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Thankyou Janka.
I hope you have a peaceful evening and try to enjoy this warm and sunny weather. I know nothing can make up for our loss, but maybe one of the sunbeams is our loved one saying hello.
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What a lovely thought Ade!
I got a good sleep so hopefully you all did too. A little fun is coming today. My daughter who lives next door is getting her puppy. Geordie.
Maybe this will bring a little smile to your faces.
Take care everyone.
xxxx
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Aww how adorable 
lots of puppy snuggles 
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Hello. I know how you feel as I lost my husband five months ago and the future seems pointless without him. Part of me wants to be with him too rather than be left. But mostly I’m doing ok so I just pray for strength and hope that as time goes on, life will get better. The sadness is horrible.
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And, in addition, I pray every day for my beloved wife, that God may bless her and that God please convey my eternal love to her.
I know that, whenever my time is up, Fanny and me will be reunited in Heaven.
Wishing everyone a blessed day!
Kind regards - Joe
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Hello everyone, I also ask God to please 
let my husband know how much I Love 
him and miss him. I know hes probably busy up there , he was always such a chatterbox. 
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Lucy, he’ll have to compete with my wife Mary, as she’ll be telling him all about the 4 kids and 11 grandchildren! 
Non stop!
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Hello. I love it!!
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Sleep well everybody.
xxxx
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I do believe as well! I pray and sacrifice everything for my most beloved husband, so he doesn’t suffer at all and I can be with him as one again and forever, This vision of my faith keeps me going on to survive everything I meet on this painful journey…
Janka
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He is watching over you on your painful journey to bring you the light on the way back to him. Every tear that we cry is not lost or in vain. It brings us to our loved ones, because only a narrow path leads to heaven. One kind priest said this: “Our loved ones are closer to us than we ever think”. I also believe that they can do much more to us from heaven than we can imagine…
Janka
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I think this, too. I’m not religious, but am spiritual and the connection we have w/ someone we love and they love is really unbreakable. Death does not alter it like we think, only the physical body is gone, but the consciousness and energy of connection remain.
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Nigel, your songs are beautiful but I had to stop listening as they set me off again!
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It’s just awful, Paula, isn’t it? Nothing makes it better except time. My husband died in January this year and and I’m lost without him. So many new things to learn - how to live alone for one. We were barely apart for 56 years. It’s taken until now (four months) to accept that he really isn’t coming back. I do cry every day, but then I feel a bit better and don’t now feel despair. I remember him as he was, before Dementia took hold, and I can hear him say: Chin up, keep moving! I’ve been forcing myself to get out and meet up with friends and family and I feel good for an hour or two. Be patient with yourself, it really does become less painful as time goes on. You won’t stop missing him but you will find eventually that you are coping with this overpowering grief. Keep posting. It’s good to write feelings down. x
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Now, they can see, recognize and understand that all far better than we can imagine here. They know everything and try to help us the best they can…
Janka
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Thank you Sanson, as you said in a later post, I found writing things down helped. Hence the poems which have now become songs too. I know that a lot are emotive, as the words just express exactly how I was at the time they were written. They’re probably not so emotive when read from the poems. Several friends have said that. People also said that the words helped them to understand that others were going through exactly the same emotions.
Take care and be kind to yourself. You’re still in the early days.
xxxx
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