I lost my soulmate 18 months ago & tonight I’ve been able to listen to music, our favourite music. I’ve been out with a friend I’ve not seen since my husband passed away because of lockdown & I was able to talk openly without family. I came home after a few glasses of wine & put our songs on. Brought so many memories back but I was ready for them. A really big step for me & I hope it inspires you too x


So glad to hear you’re feeling more able to go out and do things. I’m at six months since I lost my hubby and I can talk about him if I know that’s how the conversation is going, but if someone mentions him out of the blue, it’s like being side slammed, and I’m back to crying and shaking. My friends have been great and, like you, we’ve been able to meet up since lockdown eased. Thanks for posting,. I know it’s going to be a long road, but hopefully it will start feeling less raw xx

Hi that’s great news well done you!!

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