I’ve found something that helps me fall asleep, but I still wake up during the night. For falling asleep I use melatonin. It works pretty well, you take it an hour before going to bed. I can’t take sleeping pills, but maybe it’s something to try? Sending hugs.
I haven’t slept in my bed since my son died 7 weeks ago. The only thing that works for me is falling asleep on the sofa with the TV on. I still wake in the early hours and I’m exhausted but a few hours sleep is better than none. I hope you find something that works for you X
There are lots of podcasts that offer “bedtime stories” for adults which are soothing to listen to, so if youre awake its something for your mind to tune into, but its calming enough that you can also drift off with it in the background. Another trick i was taught that sometimes works is to count backwards from 10,000 in your head, roughly with each breath. Its designed to give a restless mind something to focus on, but not something so interesting that it will waken you further. Sort of sheep counting but in reverse!
The Calm app has some lovely sleep stories and sleep music. I love the non fiction stories as its micro learning if you cam sleep. Last night i was listening to a story about Easter Island.
I haven’t slept for days. Mind is racing and feel scared. Already lost mum and dad 9 weeks apart. I’ve now got anxiety everyone is dying. All part of grief I guess.
Take care. Hope you all sleep better tonight. Rob x