My husband was a veteran and his branch has a welfare fund which they used to finically support me in the first few weeks now I want pay it forward. But not sure if I’m doing the right thing charity night 5 days after his first memoriam?
I thought something to focus on now I’m not sure
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With these things, you don’t know till you do it. It’s probably a good thing as it will give you something to focus on and would make you and your husband proud.
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Could you tell someone that will be there that you want to come but may need to leave if it’s too much? I don’t know if that would work or not but could be an option x
I’m organising it 
it’s not the actual night it’s the few days before I might be fine I think it could be my over active mind
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