I’ve taken time out from talking on here and had to suffer and plod through the hard times not wanting to be here; now Christmas is here the overwhelming hurt is here, back with vengeance. I really don’t want Christmas to happen, i dont know how to cope and really want to be back with him.

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Hello @Hamlu1979, thank you for reaching out. Christmas can be a particularly tough time of year. We have an article on Coping with grief at Christmas which might be helpful. Many of our members have been talking about their feelings as Christmas approaches - if you search for Christmas in our search box above, or click here, you can see some of these threads and connect with other members.

Please be gentle with yourself - you are not alone.

Take care