I can’t face putting up decorations, I lost my mum 2 years ago on December 3rd and each year the grief is getting worse,
I feel my life is on pause as I now care for dad, I can’t face Christmas and I can’t face putting up decorations and I feel so bad and guilty as I feel I am letting my husband and son and dad down by not being in the Christmas spirit I just can face it


I feel exactly the same my mum passed away 7 weeks ago and I can’t even contemplate Christmas and I too feel guilty as I have 2 children and it’s not fair on them my dad is 91 and it was always my mum who put their tree up if I can’t do my own how can I even do his looks like it’s going to be a really sad Christmas our 1 st without my mum and my heart is in pieces

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