Anyone else still got loved ones phone number in mobile contacts i just cant seem to delete it i know i cant message or ring hubby but just cant let go of having name in contacts . Maybe I’m just nuts.
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No, I’m the same. Can’t delete voice mail either. It seems like you are deleting them.
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Same. I haven’t deleted him from phone or email contacts; too final.
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Absolutely, still there at the top of the list! I do have to take him off my emergency contact list at some point but not ready yet 
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I don’t know what to do about the next-of-kin thing, either, as John was listed as the emergency contact with the doctor etc. if anything happened. I don’t have anyone I can put down as next-of-kin any more.
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I’ve got my two sons so I’m lucky in that respect but Andy would’ve been able to handle anything. I’m not sure they will cope!!! X
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I’ve been going through the WhatsApp messages, with photos and videos, painful but also brings smiles, and even laughter. I have a new phone, so I have to log in to the old one as they haven’t been transferred across, so I only do it when I feel up to it, and feel it might help.
He asked me to keep watching one video when he was gone, as he knew it would make me laugh (a funny incident on a camping holiday). He was bed bound for a week or so but able to communicate his wishes and thoughts.
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It’s over 3.1/2 years since my partner died, and I still send him poems to his e-mail address. Hope he reads them.
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I still have my darling husbands phone, i look at it regularly. I haven’t deleted him from mine and I hadn’t thought about the emergency contact number. I miss him all the time and I’m always crying.
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I still have Doug’s mob number in my contacts, unfortunately neither of us had a smart phone then. So, I have no text messages or voice mails. The only place I can hear his voice is on our daughter’s wedding video.
Debbie x
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I found a video on my phone. His voice can be heard asking where the remote was. That’s the only thing I have with his voice on. I keep playing it, pathetic, I know.
His daughter, as NOK, has his phone. I was dismayed to see the ticks turned blue on the last WhatsApp message I ever sent him (he was already dead, unknown to any of us). Why would she have gone into our messages? It’s like reading someone’s diary.
I have still got my darling David in my contacts and lots of messages that he sent me with kisses and hearts etc I will never delete them.
No your not nuts i too have my beloved name on my contacts . I also can’t seem to delete his name. I don’t really want to either 