Coping with loss

Hi

This is my first post on here and i do not know what to say i would like somone to help or give advice please

Lennon69

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Hi lennon ive sent you a message on the how’s your day going today thread :blush:

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Hi Lennon69
Welcome to our little community. I say welcome because while most of us wish we didn’t need this wonderful website we are so pleased to have found it.
Basically just say how you feel. Everyone is an individual but mostly we share the same anxieties and despair.
I lost my wife suddenly to a heart attack in December 2024, we had been married 48 years and I miss her terribly. I gain some comfort from looking at the spiritual side of things, looking for a meaning in life. I have lost my partner and best friend but I believe my soulmate is still with me and talk to her every day. I realise spirituality isn’t for everyone, we each have to work out our own path and this website can help.
Keep posting, join in the conversation, everyone is welcome and it really helps.

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Dear Lennon

I’m so sorry you lost your husband too. Everyone here understands your pain. When I first joined this wonderful group I searched old posts for things that were bothering me. When I was brave enough I started asking questions. There are some wonderful knowledgeable people here who will always be along with advice.

Now this is the place I come to chat, grumble or share the little wins. I feel like the people here have become friends. We are all there for one another. I hope you stay and join in, talking really does help x

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Hi @Leonie1
I am sorry for your loss , I lost my husband suddenly to a cardiac arrest September 2025 .
I have been on this site 1year today
They have been many up and downs
I have found the people on here very helpful, supportive, caring and a lovely bunch of people . Who I regard as friends .
Say how you are feeling , ask questions they will always be someone to answer you .I hope you joined in .And find some comfort from it As we all understand the pain and loneliness of losing our love ones .

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