Could Someone Give me Advice and Support for Coping with Loss of a Parent?

Hello there,

My name is besos, and I am new to this community. I am reaching out because I have recently experienced the loss of my parent; and I am struggling to come to terms with it. My parent and I were very close; and their passing has left a void that I am finding difficult to fill.

I have heard that this community is a supportive place for those dealing with grief and loss; and I am hoping to connect with others who might understand what I am going through. It is been challenging to navigate the waves of emotions; ranging from sadness and anger to confusion and a sense of emptiness.

One of the things I struggle with is finding ways to keep their memory alive in a positive way. I have been considering creating a memory book or even planting a tree in their honor; but I am unsure if these gestures will provide the comfort I am seeking.

Has anyone here tried something similar; or do you have other suggestions that have helped you honor your loved one?

I am curious about how others have managed their day to day life while grieving. Some days; even simple tasks feel overwhelming; and I would appreciate any advice on coping strategies that have worked for you.

Also, I have gone through this post; https://www.sueryder.org/grief-support/supporting-someone-bereaved/supporting-children-and-young-people/grief-and-bereavement-resourcesaws-devops/ which definitely helped me out a lot.

Whether it is finding the right support group; practicing mindfulness; or any other methods; I am open to trying different approaches.

Thankyou in advance for your help and assistance. :slightly_smiling_face:

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Yes, I know how you are feeling, and sadly those feelings never go away - Appreciating nature helps - even a walk in the rain ! I know we are all different, but there are so many other people out there coping with devastating losses & when i meet them, I gain strength. Keeping busy with what you really enjoy doing helps, also music in the background is soothing. I have my brother’s chair, coffee table & photos around, which all make me feel better - im determined to celebrate his life with a smile and say " thank you" to him often… just for being there… its so hard, but we just have to keep on going… x

I think a memory book or planting a tree is a lovely idea. I don’t think the loss of a parent is something we can ever move on from entirely but I believe we can adapt and try to find joy in the little things. Of course this is not easy. My Dad passed away about 8 months ago. He was a big theatre lover so I’m trying to get his name placed on a theatre seat to commemorate him.

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