Two years after my Mums death,here i am again having lost my Dad only yesterday.
He had a fall,so had a hip replacement,spent almost 5 weeks in hospital,he had Dementia,the operation seem to bring his Dementia further on.
So sadly Dad deteriated and i spent 4 days watching just laying in bed breathing ,until it stopped.
Why do i feel slighty different compared to how i felt with Mum?
I feel the same sadness but with added other feelings of almost sickness,its hard to explain,but its not a nice feeling…
I’m so sorry to hear about your dad, @SarahJane60. Your loss is very recent, so please be gentle with yourself right now.
I just wanted to bump your thread as I can see you’ve not had a response yet - I’m sure someone will be along to offer their support.
Take care 