Hi Andrea, so sorry to hear you have lost your mum as well, it’s such a difficult and life altering loss and we have support for you here. It is so tiring at first having to do all the things that come after someone has died, even now, a year later we are still sorting things out, and I expect this will go on for some years. I remember that years ago, my gran had already started to organise things so there was less for everyone to do, but even then, it was a while before things were all settled. Moving is hard at any time but to do it in later life took real courage! I can understand how worried you must have been about her. I hope you find some comfort in this chat forum. We have all been there in some form or another. Best wishes, Gill xx