Death of my adult son

Losing a child
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Death of my adult son
My son lived with me. He was 40, very technical and in his own words a bit of a nerd. He was respected and loved by friends and coĺleagues. I came home from work on 17 December to find him dead on the living room floor. He had a tear in his aorta and would have died quickly. Theres just me now, brother and brother in law live in different countries. My son was the kindest, most loving person I have ever known and I miss him so.

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Hello @Chris2425 ,

I can see that you’re new to the community. I hope you find it to be a support to you, but I am so sorry for the loss of your son that brings you here.

You say you are missing him so very much. I wanted to share some sources of support that might help you right now.

  • Child Bereavement UK support families with the loss of a child. They also support bereaved children. You can call their helpline on 0800 02 888 40.

  • The Compassionate Friends support families who have lost a child of any age. They have a grief companion scheme where you can get 1-1 support from another bereaved parent. You can call them on 0345 123 2304.

Sue Ryder also has some resources which can help you cope with grief.

Thank you again for sharing – please keep reaching out and know that you are not alone.

Take care,

Alex

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What a terrible shock it is to lose an adult child.
My eldest son age 40 was found passed away at his home by a friend on November 8th. It has been a living nightmare.
I’m lucky to have my husband, ( Ben’s stepdad ) and 3 other sons but it doesn’t change the fact that Ben has gone.
We don’t have a cause of death yet.
He has an 8 yr old son who lives with his mum.
I feel so bad for my grandson too.

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Thank you Alex

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So sorry for your loss my son took his own life on the 31st of December 24 he was 30 like you I’m broken x

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I’m so sorry, that word is not enough though.
I fear my son may have done the same ….

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Fjl and Chez1973I am so sad that we have ended up in this unhappy place. My son died from complications with his heart. His dad died 11 years ago. I am now on my own. He spent most of his time with friends but every Saturday morning he would take me for breakfast and he didnt care how far he drove to get to a really nice cafe or restaurant. I feel so lonely now as I an sure you do.

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He sounds like he was a caring young man. It’s a terrible tragedy for you.
Perhaps in time and when you’re ready you can do a regular breakfast out with a friend in his memory.

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My beautiful 30 year old son took his life in August. I love and miss him so much. To say I’m heartbroken isn’t enough x