death of my wife

I can relate to this.the weekend of 8th-11th June at our fundraising event it felt odd not ringing sue and walking back in the house knowing that sue wasn’t there broke me

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I’m going through the same my husband of 24 years die suddenly May 21 2023 very very raw I’m confused frightened to grieve probably as I’m scared of what I might do

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I 'm in Kefalonia now with my son,brother in law and granddaughter, Joan loved Greece and I planned 4 two week holidays this year after sorting out our pensions.
I thought that if I went to a resort where we had never been before where there were no reminders I would cheer up a bit, no such luck, the whole world is a reminder that she has gone.
I’m dreading going back in that house.

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I feel the same. Nothing is important anymore. The worst has happened and life is short.

@bootsie
Try and just relax and take time out on holiday to just be"…
I highly recommend Alan watts on you tube or Jason Stephenson these have been a lifeline to myself through this mad insane grief…
Find a quiet spot put your headphones on and give them a listen