Hi.
I’ve just joined, so hello
I lost my lovely husband Pete on 3rd April 24. We’d been together for 38 years, married for 33. He was my whole life as i was his.
He had bladder cancer, a missed diagnosis, which makes it even harder, his death could have been avoided.
I’m feeling all the feelings that come with grief, but the loneliness is really hard. We were each other’s world, and just to add to the loss I’m a full time wheelchair user so it’s not easy to get out and talk to people.
Life is rubbish right now
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This time last week i lost my darling husband john unexpectedly. This time last week we were having dinner and getting ready to return to work .we have been married for 33 years together since we were 15 for 40 years he was my best friend my other half .this is so unfair
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My heart goes out to you. I, like you have lost my husband of 46 1/2 years, suddenly in February. The festive period has been particularly difficult, more so going into my first year without him. We, like you, we’re each other’s world, so as you know, nothing at all is the same. I live in Aberdeen, I should say, I exist not live. I can’t see a way ahead but looking for an appropriate face to face support group. Thinking of you at this sad time.
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I do know what you are going through, like you my husband’s cancer was missed until it was too late, i had 4 weeks with him before he died, the hospital kept sending him home and doing nothing until he was taken in on 28th October, if they had done a biopsy sooner he might of had a chance
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Hard enough to lose spouse, but w/ health challenges such as yours (in a w/c) I can imagine it makes everything harder. I hope you find peace soon.
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