I lost my mum in January and my dad last month. My fella was great to begin with but now he just doesn’t seem to care. I cry and he says nothing. I’m quiet he’s even quieter and goes to bed early after spending all evening on his phone not talking to me.
He’s moody and sensitive to any comments I make about his moods. He’s always on the defence and turns things around on me. He’s quite childish when I try to talk things through.
His moods change with the moon (honestly they do). He’s always been like this but now when I need the support (just a hug or a are you ok?). He’s just not there. I’d talk to my mum and dad about his moods before but now I can’t.
Yes I’m sad and I’m no fun at the moment but you’ve got to take the rough with the smooth.