My darling husband passed away in June. Everything seems to have gone wrong since then. Lots of struggling to get pensions etc sorted out. Finally thought I had sorted everything out.
Then blocked gutters, 2 radiators sprung a leak , flooding everywhere then 2 weeks ago gas leak and condemed boiler. No heating or hot water.
Now today realised government pensions not gone into bank.
Cant get in touch until next Thursday.
I just feel everything is against me.
I am dreading Christmas as well.
Sorry for the poor me rant.
Just sitting crying all the time. Hate this life.
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So sorry to hear that ive had a few things going wrong and i feel very vunerable now.Never had to worry about any of that when my partner was here .Its all such a nightmare xxx
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@Hope5 Thank you for your reply. I thought I was coping fairly well but this has just knocked me for six. I know I will just have to grin and bear it but it just seems so worse when its nearly Christmas and you cant get hold of anyone to find an answer.
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Its not easy getting trades men out i need a plumber but they dont seem interested unless its a big job .xxx
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Hello Annie, I’m sorry for your loss. The cruel irony of the death of your loved one is that right after their death is when you need them the most. I hope you can find some peace of mind in knowing you’re not alone out there in grief. Take care.
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Thank you Peterb
@AnnieG1 sorry for the struggles you’re having at the moment. Keep everything in perspective, you will get all of this sorted. I can empathise, I tend to catastrophise this kind of stuff all the time. Just take each issue one at a time, lean on family and friends. Breathe…
Best wishes xx
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@Rosiepink Thank you. My husband used to say I drove him mad with my ‘what ifs’. I’m not too bad during the day its at night my mind runs riot and I dont seem to be able to get anything into perspective. Best wishes to you too. xx
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So sorry for your loss please reach out at anytime
My grief is my mam I’m only 40 I’ve lost her
Felt like my world had stopped but I’m a mam as well my kids and my dog have been brilliant
I got some
Of her ashes put it in a necklace I know she’s always around me
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