Double bereavement

My husband died suddenly four months ago after we’d been together for 25 years. The one person who has always been there for me, my mother, died a few weeks later. I am so grateful for the friends who have done their best for me but they barely touch the void inside. The loss and loneliness is devastating and feeling more so as time goes by and others return to their still fully functioning lives.

HI Pamela,sorry to hear about your loss,loosing your husband and then your mother is even more devasting.I lost my husband suddenly nearly 3 months ago we too were together for 25 years.I understand when you say friends help but it barley touches the void inside and I don’t think it ever will but they will get us through this.you have come to the right sight as everyone on here is grieving and we try to help one another.take care of yourself.Debbie

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