Yeh @Martyn2 i am too ! Going to my daughters for lunch so will see my granddaughter … so thats something at least ! I hate every single minute without my husband here ! He was such fun and such a loving man … how do you replace that ? Missing him so much on these cold dark nights ! Its not fair and its all crap ! I hate this world !!! X
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Debs 5 i really hate this new life without sue.miss the cuddles laughs and teaching me how to cook .i,ve had to tell a couple of our female friends to leave me alone as they are trying to get me to having a relationship with them and i dont want anyone else but my gorgeous beautiful wife sue and no one will ever replace her
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@Deb5
Only 2 1/2 weeks since I lost my beautiful wife but she’s been slipping away from me for over 3 years I took the best possible care of her I could and was by her side every step of the way.
Now I have to focus on my beautiful family that have supported me through these difficult times. I went to my daughter’s house today to see my beautiful granddaughter Thea (18 months old) and her big brother Ennis (7) and we decided to wait until after the funeral and then decorate the house as she would have wanted.
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Friendship is all you need at this stage isnt it @Martyn2 ! They shouldn’t be trying to pair you up with anyone ! You just need an understanding friend really - especially when you dont want it 
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@Martyn2
You absolutely don’t want / need people around you that have any such intentions, just simple friendship. I can’t even imagine a time when I would be able to consider anything else as it’s all so raw. My memory of my beautiful wife, my family and happier times is all I can cope with.
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Deb5 exactly what they have been told .got two really understanding close friends who were disgusted with there behaviour and they have been told by the rest of our group of friends who get together at bike rallies that they are no longer welcome to camp with us ever again
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Good ! You sorted them out martyn 
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Deb5 the rest of our group were absolutely livid with them. Plus the landlord of our favourite pub where we go to for a lot of events has banned them as we always tidied up after ourselves and the other two left there area messy so the rest of us had to clean up after them
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Sorry for your loss.
I have no one this xmas.
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