Dreaming of my husband crying

Losing a partner
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Hi, I lost my soulmate 3 weeks ago and I’ve recently started to dream with him, normally lovely vivid dreams, we are happy and in love as normal, but my last dream we was happy and in love having a lovely time then my husband sat down and started to cry, he then showed me a picture of him before his cancer diagnosis and said this was me before 09th January which is a date I can only imagine to be January 24 when he was diagnosed, as he passed end of December 24. I comforted him in my dream but then I was woken so abruptly.

Has anyone experienced this?
I’m so worried that it means he is sad where he is now and is trying to tell me this. What do I do?

I smell him all the time with me, but not his cologne scent or deodorant it’s his scent now, (he hasn’t been cremated yet and I’ve visited him several times whilst waiting), it’s his sweet smell he has now

Again has anyone experienced this.

Sorry for the long post.

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I just wanted to give this a bump for you @BrokenDoll. I can understand why you’d feel so unsettled by that dream. I know dreams are really common when we’re grieving so hopefully someone will be along to share their experiences :blue_heart:

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Hi- sorry for your loss. I am 18 months in and still have a few dreams about my wife- but not as many as I thought. She’s in a car in the back seat just setting off and I can’t get in the car- and the other one she’s in a building up high, I can see her but again can’t get to her. I am sure she’s happy- with her mum and dad, and out of pain from the cancer. You’re not alone, keep going and never give in.