I lost my husband from Prostate cancer 3 yrs ago , we had been together for 61 yrs. He is in my dreams just about every night, we are doing things we always did together. I know it is his spirit and he is still looking after me. One night soon after he had died I woke to seeing him standing at the side of the bed smiling at me, he was wearing his blue shirt. As soon as I tried to focus he disappeared but I know he was there, one of my favourite songs is ‘ I’ll see you in my dreams’ . They sang that at the Hospice memorial and I say it to him every night. I hope this helps you, it does me.
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@AlPAGRO thats amazing, I’m so desperate for another but nothing yet, he’s on my mind every second of the day so you’d think he would be in my dreams but it’s only been twice, I’ve read they only visit when they went to give a message, my message last time he said sorry 
he’s got nothing to be sorry for apart from leaving me this early 
I know that’s exactly why he said sorry, for leaving me, alone, he knew I hated it I just hope he’s with me during the days too, one of my fave films was ghost and I sometimes think I wonder if he’s just sitting next to me like Patrick swayze does in ghost! I’m always talking to him like he’s listening