Feel like im drowning with everything and so overwhelming with everything 
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@Judy10
I totally understand it’s so horrendous & I took feel like I’m drowning I lost my partner in February followed by my little brother 3 months after.
It’s so incredibly hard feeling lost & lonely. Sending you love and strength
Poppy77 i lost my dad in April and my darling husband in June and people tell me they understand and things will get better 
only people on here until because we are going through the same pain 
i keep getting pain in my head and it’s awful and just want it all to stop. Sending hugs 
to you all
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@Judy10
It unbelievable how we feel I honestly think it is getting worse.
How can anything like this get easier I think people just don’t know what to say to someone grieving, & that’s sad no one understands until you are faced with such devastation, life will never be the same how can it 
You’ve had so much loss in such a short time. Sending hugs. xx
Poppy77 and your right people don’t know what to say and life will never be the same and i agree with you because i feel worse than ever people say to me your have a different life now and I say i don’t want a different life. I want the life i had with my husband 
but i have to look after my son and he’s the reason I carry on xx
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@Judy10
I’m a full time carer to my mum she needs 24 hour care she’s server brain damage, I think if I didn’t I wouldn’t even get out of bed some days but that’s not a option she keeping me going like yourself with your son 
Poppy77 yeah my son is autistic and now my husband gone 
it’s just me and i fight every day to get up and look after him. But like you it’s hard and hard for my son. But bless your mum and we just keep going 
hugs to you all
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Hi poppy so sorry for your loss, I lost my husband in June he was 52, the pain is just horrific
@Cookie1973
I’m sorry for you’re loss it’s do unbelievable hard it actually feels like it’s getting worse my partner was 59 I’m 47 I can’t believe then I lost my beautiful little brother as well 3 months after & in between my eldest brother was diagnosed with a rare T4 nasal cancer he’s battling.
Life is so so incredible hard right now sending you love and strength
I know that feeling, I lost my wonderful husband three weeks ago after a short cancer battle. I feel lost and to compound things my dog started getting seizures and had to be put to sleep on Wednesday.
I just feel like I want to stay in bed for the next couple of years until I get over this worst period of my life but I know I won’t actually ever get over losing Dave.
Hi Tina I’m sorry for your loss. It really is unbearable isn’t.
Sending hugs x
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I’m new here and just feel utterly bereft. My 51yo husband passed away on Wednesday 7w and 1d after diagnosis.
I feel crushed and restless and so frightened and lost, I don’t know if I can do this. I can’t fathom how he’s not here. I can’t forget the horror of it. I just want to go to sleep and never wake up.
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I am so sorry Mill. It’s where none of us wanted to be, but this site has been very helpful and supportive to me. We are all travelling the same road. All I can say is to try and take one hour at a time for now, don’t look too far into the future.
My husband died 4 months ago of a cardiac arrest. It was a terrible shock as he seemed fit and well.
We have all got different stories and are at different stages, but everyone here understands.
Sending love,
Xx
Thank you for the response.
I feel like I could have a heart attack, my chest is so tight and my anxiety levels are so high. If it weren’t for my children I would take steps not to be here.
I don’t know if I can bear it.
Mill, I have been widowed twice. The first time I really believed that I was going to have a heart attack. I had a pain in my chest so bad. I went to the doctor. She said I was having panic attacks, But it really is sensible to get checked out. If you really feel suicidal there are people you can talk to.
When I feel that everything is pointless I just look at my kids and know exactly why I am still standing,
Sending hugs
Xx
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So,so sorry for your loss,i lost my hubby last Friday,still cannot take it in,everything is so raw,i don’t like getting up in the morning to face another day without him,but because of the dog i have to make myself get up.