I lost my wife 3 months ago,I have spent the last 2hrs shredding unwanted paperwork,90% has her name on it makes me feel i’m shredding her away but i know it has to be done,I feel guilty for doing it
you have many other personal items from her I am sure.
the paperwork and not needed things is the right thing to do.
when my dad died I was tossing all of his pills and it was like a party was over and I was cleaning up. don’t feel bad about what you are doing. otherwise you will feel swamped by it all.