Hello my name is Ann
I lost Tony husband of 34 years in January 2023 .
I miss him so much I feel lost and empty , I just am finding it difficult to concentrate on any one thing , just hopeless . WE did everything together he was my best friend I know he would hate me not getting on but it is just so hard at the moment.
@Ann16 totally get what you’re saying, it’s so hard isn’t it? This site has been really helpful sometimes just reading the comments even if you don’t feel like talking.
Hi
I really understand this I am going the same thing, I just don’t know what I am supposed to do anymore, my husband and I were best friends too, I can’t seem to get into anything anymore either.
Really hard it is helpful to read that the wave of emotions seems to be what everyone goes through thank you for reaching out
I went back to work and I have found it helpful being around people and having other conversations in the the working environment so a good outlet for a short time only.
I am the same complete loss of confidence Tony and I shared everything each of us dealt with different things at home and in general . I feel so lonely without him and totally unable to get into things either I just feel I have lost myself somewhere . i have gone away to see if this helps a little but I still find myself at a loss. I have family and friends and they are fantastic but unless it is experienced no one really understands the emptiness