Heather 1964.
Don’t you think we will compare to our late husbands ?
I think that is inevitable to some extent. We will have to bear in mind that everyone is an individual. I’m not going to force anything, if something happens all well and good but if it doesn’t, so be it.
Hi
I lost my Ian on 31st March. Its the 1st time I have felt like this. I am so sad. I really miss him. His smell. His hugs. I’m SO lonely but I have 3 children. They have their lives. Their families. Their grief of losing their Dad. How can I tell them how I feel, without them feeling they should be with me? I want to howl and shout. I am angry we couldn’t/ didn’t go together! I’m 63 and know there might be brighter days but right now I can’t stop crying. I’m feeling sorry for myself which is selfish, a sin, if I still believed in God, which I don’t! I’m so angry with the world right now😭
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Hi liz, I feel your loss I lost my mum on July 10th & it’s so dam hard, I cry every day, the guilt is awful, I feel lost, I have two daughters one who still lives with me & they are so supportive but I still feel like that little girl lost that needs her mum & I’m 58, I miss her so much I never thought it would hurt like it does, they say it does get easier, but I don’t know how, I don’t think I will ever be the person I was before, you are in my thoughts, I hope you get some comfort to help you through these dark days & nights, it’s nice to have people to share experiences in how we are all getting through it, take care, keep in touch
Love Lynn xx
Thank you Lynn
I can’t communicate with family at the moment and just to know someone is there is a comfort x
Heather 1964.
I lost my husband 2 years ago and it does not get any easier not for me anyway, we were married 44 years and so lost without him. I got married on my 20th birthday Dave was 22 so basically we grew up together, we had some great fun along the way which is what I miss. How are you doing ?
Wow, you were married such a long time. That’s a lot of memories.
I’ve had a good day, I went to a protest in Leeds and met some ladies from Barnsley. It was great to be on the same page with people.
Hope you are having a good evening, if you’re anything like me feelings can change from 1 minute to the next,
Take care,
Heather x