I found out yesterday completely by accident that my father passed away in December last year. NO ONE told me or my sibling of his passing. I found out by noticing his property for sale online, so checked with the funeral director that he had a plan with and they confirmed it. I am so angry that no one told me or my sibling, I feel numb. We hadn’t spoken in a few years but even so common decency would say tell his kids. I feel so lost. Hiw do I deal with this?
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Hi that’s just terrible.This must be so traumatic for you to find this out..plus his property is on the market….so quickly too.
There must be so many questions you want answered and I can only hope that you get them answered by those who didn’t tell you what was going on.
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Tha k you 
I have requested a copy of the death certificate from the registry to see who registered it then can take things from there. I’m not bothered about the will, Inheritance etc it’s the fact of not being informed I have issue with
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Yes that’s ultimately what hurts the most.
It’s good that youhave found this out just a few months after he passed..as if you found out years later It could be even more devastating.
It will take courage and real determination to get through all this.I really hope they give you the answers you need which will definitely help you process what going on.
You must be feeling pretty alone and just excluded at this time.
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like Anthony said, i’m glad you found out now rather than even later but how could this happen? i really hope you get answers because i can’t even begin to think how this must be for you. sending you love
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Thank you, I know! My brother is livid that no one informed us.
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