It’s been 2.5 years since my husband died. Feeling very overwhelmed. I thought I was doing good, coping and doing jobs he would have done or getting trades in to sort. Fence has blown down in the storm today and I have got it sorted to be fixed soon.
Months ago I wouldn’t have been able to cope sorting stuff. Now I feel awful getting it done.
Thank you so much for sharing this with the community I’m sure someone will be along to offer their support, but I just wanted to let you know that you have been heard and you are not alone.
I can’t answer this since I am wondering myself the same thing. It’ s been 12 months since my husband passed and the overwhelm seems to continue on. When things go better, I am much better able to cope, but when the unexpected happens, I go backwards. And, unfortunately the unexpected seems more usual lately.