Feeling stupid

I am sat here in floods of tears feeling very stupid, I have been scammed only a small amount but that’s not the point. I missed a transaction for 75p on my credit card the day after my husbands funeral they have gone on to set up a monthly amount from my card. The company have been blocked and so has my card. All I can think about is what would Ray have to say as we were always so careful.

Hi @Rajay ,

I’m sure someone will be along to offer their support, but I just wanted to say thank you for so bravely sharing this with us, please do be kind to yourself. Keep reaching out,

Alex

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I don’t think Ray would be cross with you…
He might be mad that at the person who did this to you. How could someone could do this to a person who is going through one of the most difficult times of their life, so vulnerable!!
He would surely support you and he definitely wouldn’t be upset with you… you have done nothing wrong, they have, and its despicable!
But you know what… you’ve fought back so I reckon he might be quite proud of that fighting spirit of yours…
:people_hugging:

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Thank you, I was so upset with myself for getting caught out.

Believe me… it could happen to anyone!
I use a phone app now for my bank… I have notifications on, but silent.
Every transaction sends a notification. Don’t know if that’s something you’d want to do?

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I do online banking but may have to get the app. I normally check every day but the first payment of 75p was missed with it being the day after Rays funeral.

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