First anniversary

Losing a child
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Yesterday was a year when I got the phone call that no parent should ever hear.
My daughter (f21) was in ICU and her heart had been restarted.
She had been inpatient for 3 years and took her own life. Upon investigation, she was already brain dead before she left the ward, being without oxygen for 30 minutes.

In 2 more days was when they turned the life support off after her organs were donated.

Having the incident report replays the whole thing in my head with timescales.
Her death was preventable and I am so angry that it was allowed to happen :cry:

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I’m so sorry, @Yoggy. I remember your first thread about Bethany and it is devastating what happened to her.

Thank you for reaching out - I just wanted to give your thread a gentle, “bump”. I’m sure someone will be along to offer their support.

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Yesterday was a year when you got the phone call that no parent should ever have to hear so your daughter 21 was in ICU and her heart had been restarted she had been inpatient for 3 years and she took her own life but on investigation she was already brain dead before she left the ward and she being without oxygen for 30 minutes and in 2 more days was when they turned the life support off and after her organs were donated so her death was preventable so you were so angry that it was allowed to happen :pleading_face: l am so sorry for your loss of your daughter try to remember. The day your daughter was born and some Christmas and birthday so very sorry