First time I visited the grave

Today was the first time I’ve visited my mom’s grave on my own, I took one look at her name on the stone & burst into tears :sob:. Normally I don’t believe in visiting graves as a thing, feeling that their soul has moved on, but lately I’ve been going through a rough time, having a lot of problems with my dad, struggling to cope with everything, & I missed her, I wished she was here to talk to & help me. If she were here, she would of given me a big hug, listen to me talk through whatever has upset me, then she would of said, “everything in life is just a phase,”. I miss her. :sob: ultimately, I found going to her grave very traumatic, because it was written in stone confirmation that she’s gone.


Hi Pandaprincess,

Thank you so much for sharing this with the community :blue_heart: I’m sure someone will be along to offer their support, but I just wanted to let you know that you have been heard and you are not alone.

Take good care,

Hi Panda Princess. I hear you l and I get it.
I have lost my mum and went to visit her grave the other day and just knelt there and sobbed. She used to come with me to visit the grave of her parents and now I’m visiting hers. It’s beyond incomprehensible and so utterly painful, especially seeing her name in stone. Just heartbreaking, I get that.
I went to a medium recently and my grandparents came through and said I had brought joy to then by visiting their grave so I think that my mum will also be aware, I think their souls just feel you near. Try and take some comfort in that.
Maybe take a duck figurine next time (I read your post about the 50p on the bus!). xx

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Hi @BrackObama ,
Thanks for your kind words, & I like your idea about the duck, :duck: my mom would like that.

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